The Benefits of Not Sleeping Together
For the first time in over 2 weeks my boyfriend and I slept in the same bed again. Heh, if only the reason for us sleeping in different beds was exciting! Truthfully it was 'cuz he messed up his back and needed to sleep on something else, something with a different firmness. It was really nice, sleeping with him again. He'd been out of our bed for... gosh... probably 3 weeks.When he laid down in bed with me it was almost like the first time we slept together; it was new and exciting. I remember we turned and faced each ...
To laugh or not to laugh…
The last time my boyfriend and I had sex we enjoyed a lot of laughing. So much laughing i was wondering if we were going to get pat it and actually get busy! It was fun though. We poked at each other, picked on each other, laughed together and smiled a lot. It was wonderful.As much as slow, romantic situations are wonderful and passionate, spur of the moment quickies are incredible, it seems like that's always what we want and we don't let whatever happens, happen. We get so wrapped up with everything having to be "just so." The ...
What makes sex good?
Now, I'm quite lucky in that I haven't had much "bad" sex. Basically, for me, any sex is good sex so long as it's consensual and safe and all that. So for me, a lot of it is a chosen mental state, rather than the actual quality of sex. I suppose though, that there are physical factors of consensual intercourse that would cause it to be good versus bad. So I suppose, in order for the sex to be good both parties would need to orgasm, yes? Not really. I think there needs to be more than that.First off I ...
Strap-On Condom? YUP. Strap-on condom.
So this...invention... is called the Sensis sheath. It's a strap-on condom that, as far as I've been able to research, is being marketed for those who are too drunk to be able to put on a standard condom. I guess it's easier to pull the straps to slide the condom on, rather than simply putting your fingers around the penis to slide it up.Now, I have a few thoughts about this. Not the least is that if you're so drunk you can't put a condom on you probably shouldn't be having sex anyway. If you frequently have sex with people ...
When I Masturbate…
Even after all this time sometimes I still worry about what others would think if they saw me. The strange part is though, if there is a chance that people could see me (like through open blinds or something) then it's like, extra better for me! I suppose that's the exhibitionist in me. They way I look at it; if someone's watching then they want to watch, otherwise they wouldn't, ya know? However I don't much like to watch myself so I suppose that's where the issues come from.Thing is, I'm a creature that thrives on routine and consistency. While ...
I’m too easy…
So I am way too easy. I really am. And it's not a choice thing. It's something I have very little control over. And it's really, really frustrating. Sometimes I fight tears because of how easy I am. Easy to get off that is.I can orgasm within seconds. Especially if it's via clitoral stimulation. But I cam also very easily orgasm, and quickly, via nipple stimulation, g-spot stimulation and internal vaginal stimulation. I can also have small anal orgasms, though they're not as intense; they're almost a relief from the intense orgasms I can have otherwise.I've always known that I ...
Why do I have so many sex toys?
A couple months ago I gave away two boxes full of sex toys. Vibrators, dildos, anal toys, lube, even some bondage gear. Now first off, keep in mind that they were all cleaned and sterilized. And they are sterilizable for future use. Even after doing that, I still have over 100 sex toys. That includes dildos, vibrators, eggs, rabbits, anal toys, bondage gear and so on and so forth. And I love it! It's funny because sometimes I feel like a hoarder, having so many sex toys and wanting even more.Now, how I get my toys is different than ...
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Strap-On Condom? YUP. Strap-on condom.So this…invention… is called the Sensis sheath. It’s a strap-on condom that, as far as I’ve been able to research, is being marketed for those who are too drunk to be able to put on a standard condom. I guess it’s easier to pull the straps to slide...
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