Sometimes talking is not the answer…

Talking

While talking things out is always a much better idea than just letting the issue fester, sometimes talking isn’t the right way to go about communicating the problem.  However that’s not to say that you shouldn’t communicate, it’s just saying that verbally speaking isn’t always the best way, especially considering how many other communications options we have nowadays.  My boyfriend and I actually rarely verbally speak about things when we’re having issues with something, even if it’s not something central in our relationship (eg – a behavior, something someone said, etc).  We don’t even usually talk about it in an instant message setting.

What we do is e-mail each other.  (Or Facebook message, though typically e-mail.)  The reason we do it this way is because we are still able to communicate what we need to, however we’re able to think it all through, make sure we’re factually correct if we’re citing a specific event and can make sure that we’re not being petulant or something.

Now that’s not to say that we’ve never had actual verbal arguments.  Sure we have, we’re human!  But when we have a choice, we take it to e-mail so that we can be clear and concise.  So we can ensure that we express ourselves thoroughly without name calling, trigger pushing or any other unavoidable negativity throwing.

There’s also another awesome reason to communicate via written word; if you’re suggesting trying something new.  The reason for this is that you’re able to be concise about what you’re saying; if you get jumbled in your words you’re able to take the time to sit back and find the right words.  You’re able to read over what you’re saying to ensure it’s actually what you’re wanting to express.  Also, if you’re wanting to include examples, photos, websites or things of that nature you’re able to insert those things to better help express your point(s).

Personally, things like this, while they may be a difficult subject matter, kind of make me feel good.  It’s nice to know that whomever is sending the email (or letter or card or whatever it may be) thinks enough of me and enough of the subject to put that kind of thought into it.

Truth is, by putting that kind of time and effort into your communication it’s very likely that you will learn something about your feelings and thoughts on the matter as well.  When you’re speaking, no matter how much thought you put into what you’re going to say, there’s always so much emotion in it, as well as spontaneity.  When writing you have that opportunity to think about what you want to say, type/write it, then read it before you send or give it to the recipient.  You’re able to show that the subject matter is important to you, as is communicating your feelings, thoughts and any expectations you have about it.

The long and short of it is that communication is hard.  No bones about it.  Sometimes the need to hash things out just flat out sucks! Communicating is hard work; saying things that may not be the nicest things to say and hearing things of the same nature.  Saying “Honey, you’re being an asshat” sometimes all that’s needed.  However, when you have to go into detail, it’s not easy.

But sometimes it has to be done, and being able to use a method that allows you to read over things and make sure that you’re not the one being the asshat, I think it’s something that should be used.  However; it can be seen as impersonal, so if it’s a method of communication you’ve never used before, I’d makes sure to put something in there as to why you’re doing it.  ”I am saying this in an e-mail because….”

At any rate; communicate!  Whatever you need to do to express what you need to express; do it.  Say it verbally, face to face, over the phone, around a corner.  Write an e-mail or letter, send a card.  When things stay unsaid they can fester and grow into something that’s much larger than it really needs to be.

In my next post I will give you some ideas on how to broach the subject of trying a new sex act that’s a bit more… taboo.

Making time for sex…

What time is it?

Something I’ve noticed is that no matter how in the mood you are, sometimes there just isn’t time.  Whether it’s chores, work, familial obligations or getting together with friends it seems like there’s always something in the way of finding time to have sex or masturbate.  There was a time when I was “scheduling”, for lack of a better word, time for masturbation.  It was kind of fun because I was able to make a big production of it, with ambiance, a ton of toys, lubes and movies at my disposal so I could scratch whatever itch my body presented.  While doing things like that is certainly fun and has merit, it doesn’t really work in the long term.

I have a strong dislike for scheduling sex.  By scheduling sex I mean saying something to the effect that every Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 7:30pm is sex time.  Doing stuff like that creates a sense of obligation which can lead to resentment and stagnation.  Now, planning a romantic and sexy evening is one thing; that’s a special night, it’s something extra and probably won’t happen again for a while and if it does it’ll be different.  About the only time I can see actually scheduling sex being beneficial is if you’re trying to conceive.  Otherwise it becomes monotonous, lacks spontaneity and can breed resentment.

So what’s the key to finding time then?  I guess in the end it’s just knowing that you’re in the mood and going for it.  While some things like children can’t be set aside for an hour or so, other things like dishes, sending that e-mail and returning the phone call from your Mother can indeed be put set aside for some time so that you can get sexy with your partner.

The important thing to remember is that the grocery store will still be there.  Your Mom will understand a slightly delayed phone call and your chores area always going to be there, even if you do them at 8pm instead of 7pm.  Life will continue on, without glitch or delay, while you’re making love.

Intimacy

Intimacy is something that I think is sadly lacking in most relationships nowadays.  So often when I’ve been a part of a conversation about intimacy, be it a face-to-face discussion or online, people typically say “Ohh, we have a good sex life!” or “We have a lot of sex!” Well, intimacy is not sex!

Now, don’t get me wrong.  Sex IS intimate!  LOL You’re putting part(s) of one body inside another!  Your juices are mingling together, you’re causing each other indescribable pleasure.  You could possibly be making a baby!! Yea.  That’s intimate.  You’re also trusting one another to not go too far; I’ve heard from many men that it takes a lot of trust to let a woman give them head; the chance of getting bit is very scary for some men.

My boyfriend and I are not intimate in the sense of romance.  Neither of us is romantic, y0u won’t find him buying me flowers (which I’m thankful of; they just die anyway) or sprinkling petals leading me somewhere or anything like that.  And it’s fine with me because it works for us.  We don’t take baths together (though we regularly shower together and wash each other) or whisper lovey dovey stuff to each other.

However, we hold hands when we’re in bed together.  We hold hands while watching tv and almost always touch each other.  We listen to each other and do our best to always honor each other’s quirks, ticks and idiosyncrasies.  I’ve checked the definition of the word “intimacy” on more than one source and the main theme is that intimacy is actually a descriptor of very close relationships.   A relationship in which you are very close with the other person, such as siblings, best friends, parent/child and so forth.

I have intimate, non-sexual relationships with many, mostly female actually.  There’s actually a couple of females that I’m very close with, have very intimate relationships with, and it’s not at all sexual.  Sexuality and intimacy are, for the most part, exclusive.    A trusting, close relationship does not beget sex, and sex does not beget a close, trusting relationship.

More than anything though, I think it saddens me (actually often makes me angry) that so many people see sex a necessity for an intimate relationship.  Relationships with parents and siblings are getting more cold and distant, so many relationships with friends are nothing more than partying and then it’s like, once you get close enough with someone to actually be intimate, it’s suddenly seems to be a requirement that you also be sexual with them.  And the part that is really weird for me is how that assumed sexual requisite is sometimes not even from the people in the relationship!  It’s an assumption from those who  are not a part of the relationship and, for whatever reason, have a difficult time seeing close relationships between people who are not lovers.  It’s unfortunate, really.

For those that do have intimate, non-sexual relationships, they often get teased about it; being called gay, people assuming that you are indeed having sex with the person and not taking no for an answer (which can then lead to even more unpleasantness if someone says they’re lying), and so forth.

More and more, however, we are seeing non-sexual intimate relationships crop up.  From bro-mances to heterosexual lifemates (2 people of the same gender who are living together, have an intimate life-long companionship but are not sexual with one-another) it’s becoming more and more prolific.  H0pefully with how much more common it’s becoming the understanding of it will also become more common.

What are your thoughts on how intimacy and sex are two totally separate things?

Coming In From Behind

Nice Behind

It wasn’t long before I met my boyfriend that I began experimenting with anal play.  I was quite nervous, but thankfully had a really great anal probe to start with that was not intimidating and was a great size for a beginner. Similar to this vibrating anal probe it was great for a starter anal toy; it was thin, had a good thick base and was easy to use.  Plus it was non-porous, so I was able to keep it fully clean and sanitized.

Not long after that, I moved up to a set of anal beads and slowly but surely let my boyfriend play back there as well, using his fingers and then once, his mouth. (Which was awesome, by the way.)  Eventually I got to the point where I was in love with double penetration and wanted to expand to things larger than fingers and anal beads.

Thus began my exploration of anal probes and plugs.  Now, personally, I am not a fan of anal plugs.  I don’t know why, but no matter how awesome the plug is, I just prefer probes. I’m weird like that.  So I slowly started moving up in size with the toys I used anally, often using toys I already had that I knew I could sterilize; so pretty much anything that was 100% silicone.

Eventually we tried anal sex and we were able to get the entire head of his penis in, which was amazing.  I wasn’t able to take more than that so we abandoned it so I could get more practice taking toys anally.

Unfortunately we haven’t been able to try again since.  Since we’ve lost our sex drive and don’t have a real bed we aren’t able to get too terribly fancy with sex and sex play.  I’m still able to get anal play when I masturbate though!  I’ve found that if I go too long without doing something back there then, while I may not need to go all the way back down to beginner size, I still have to re-acclimate to the knowledge and sensation of something going up my butt.

Why do I like it though?  Why do I keep going back to it?  Well, it feels good!  I’ve had actual anal orgasms, which are incredible, by the way.  Absolutely amazing.  Plus, there’s the knowledge that it’s so taboo, so naughty that gives it that extra spice.  It’s a wholly unique sensation and I can use anal play to achieve double penetration, that is worth it in and of itself.

Do you enjoy anal play?  If so why?

Strap-On Condom? YUP. Strap-on condom.

So this…invention… is called the Sensis sheath.  It’s a strap-on condom that, as far as I’ve been able to research, is being marketed for those who are too drunk to be able to put on a standard condom.  I guess it’s easier to pull the straps to slide the condom on, rather than simply putting your fingers around the penis to slide it up.

Now, I have a few thoughts about this.  Not the least is that if you’re so drunk you can’t put a condom on you probably shouldn’t be having sex anyway.  If you frequently have sex with people when you’re drunk perhaps you need to look at your drinking habits and/or your behavior while drinking.

At the same time, if you are aware of this behavior and are taking measures to be protected, then that’s good!  I wish more people would be prepared like that.  Reduce unplanned pregnancies, reduce the spread of some venereal diseases and so forth.

This is one of those things that, in my opinion, is both “too much” and a good thing.  I mean, the idea that someone is so drunk they need a strap on condom just proves that they shouldn’t be having sex.  However, if they’re that determined to have sex at least there’s something out there to help them be protected during it.

What are your thoughts about the strap on condom??

EDIT –

After some thought and discussion with other’s it’s come to my thought (and others as the comment shows) is that this could really help persons with disabilities.  If you have dexterity issues, or other issues using your fingers or hands, then this little invention is something that could really help you use condoms, which is a very important thing.

So in this sense, major kudos to the inventor of this product.  I sincerely hope it gets marketing so that those who need it can use it.

When I Masturbate…

Even after all this time sometimes I still worry about what others would think if they saw me.  The strange part is though, if there is a chance that people could see me (like through open blinds or something) then it’s like, extra better for me!  I suppose that’s the exhibitionist in me.  They way I look at it; if someone’s watching then they want to watch, otherwise they wouldn’t, ya know?  However I don’t much like to watch myself so I suppose that’s where the issues come from.

Thing is, I’m a creature that thrives on routine and consistency.  While I don’t mind doing something spontaneously, if there’s any sort of routine change I tend to tweak out a little bit.  However sexually, I like variety, as does my body.  So in the end, sometimes I still end up masturbating in the same way as always because it then avoids any of those weird feelings plus, in the end, it gets the job done quick.

When I really want something special though, I tend to make a pretty big production out of it.  Thus, it doesn’t frequently happen.  First off I typically don’t have free all the time it takes to make such a big production.  I’ll take up to a half hour to prepare for it, while making plans for a day or two prior.  Plus, I’ll take at least a half hour to clean up as well.  I’ll have movies picked out for background, candles and will re-arrange the living room so I have all the space I need.

I also typically have several toys out, if not 2 or 3 toyboxes sitting out for me to get whatever toy or toys I want.  Plus I’ll have all kinds of lube ready, a towel or two, nipple clamps, anal toys, a blanket or two to lay on so I don’t get the couch dirty, and things of that nature.  These tend to be incredible masturbation sessions where I will use 10 or more toys just ‘cuz I get so into the mood I want every sensation I can get.  It’s during these sessions where I often will be able to ejaculate a little bit.  That’s always exciting for me as it takes so very much for me to be able to do so.

It then takes me quite some time to clean up.  First, I need to recoup a bit LOL  Then I need to clean up all my toys and get them put away and all the porn put away and the towels and blankets put away.  Typically I just end up showering ‘cuz I’m covered in lube and my own sexual juices.

Regardless of how I masturbate though; taking 2 hours out of my day or just grabbing one toy and having a 10 minute quickie with myself, I love it.  It’s so fun, it’s wonderful stress relief and if my blinds are open I get to have a little exhibitionist fun as well.  Granted I live on the 2nd floor and there’s no way anyone could see me on the couch unless they’re literally right in front of my window..that’s not the point! LOL

How do you like to masturbate?  Quickies or involved set ups?

When You’ve Lost Your Sex Drive

Something that we’ve been dealing with for quite some time is that we’ve lost our sex drives.  My boyfriend more than I, but both of us nonetheless.  There’s several reasons for this, and slowly but surely we’re getting through this.

An important thing to remember though, for anyone involved in a loss of sex drive is that it’s a normal thing to have happen.  While it sucks in epic fashion, it really does fall into the “shit happens” category of life.  However, that doesn’t make it any easier to accept or cope with.

Now, if you’ve both lost your sex drives, that does make it easier, in that one of you isn’t sitting there all horny and desiring your partner while he/she is unable to oblige you.  However, have been through all 3 versions of this (both of us lost it, and one of us lost it [me having lost it or him having lost it]) here are a few things that I’ve learned, in no particular order.

1. Talk about it.  Both parties need to be honest and empathetic to the other’s current issues.  And while this is always true in relationships, it’s most certainly emphatically true when this is going on.
2. Know that it’s okay to masturbate, but also make sure you’ve had a talk with your partner about masturbation so that there’s no mixed communication about it.  Some people truly do have a problem with masturbation.
3. Even if you’re unable to understand why your partner is feeling they way they are that is resulting in a low sex drive, make sure that you respect their feelings.  Though it may make no sense to you, their feelings are valid and we all need to act like it.
4. Do everything you can to try to get to the bottom of the problem and resolve it.   Is it physical or emotional?

The thing is that loosing your sex drive, or if your partner loosing theirs is really emotionally difficult.  It can bring up a lot of emotions which can be an issue in and of themselves.  I can say though, that I’ve never doubted my boyfriend’s desire for me, which often can be the first emotional fallout during a time like this.  Why haven’t I felt this?  Because my boyfriend makes sure to still give me attention, we’ve talked about this and also he makes sure to tell me that he still finds me attractive.  I do the same for him.

A few things I’ve noticed have helped us during this difficult time are (in no particular order):

1. Don’t blame.  Ever.
2. Make sure to still give your partner attention; kisses, hugs, tickles or whatever works for your relationship and personalities.
3. Simply admit that your sex drive is gone and let your partner know that you still find them attractive and still desire them.

And just a couple more notes:

1. If you’re the one who’s lost your sex drive, sometimes it helps to simply jump in bed with your partner and try.  Who knows what’ll happen!
2. If your partner jumps in bed with you and tries and they are unable to finish, unable to stay lubricated or erect do not blame them!!!!  That will do nothing but make things worse and believe me; they already feel like shit about it.

Be supportive and loving and empathetic.  You’ll make it through this with love and understanding and will be better for it and chances are you’ll have better sex too!!

Have you gone through this?  If so what helped you make it through?

Photo By: krossbow

Tips For Buying Sex Toys Online

Buying sex toys in a brick and mortar store does have a couple upsides in that you can actually pick up the toy, feel it, and see the size of it with it right there in your hand.  Granted it’s in it’s package, but it’s still a lot easier to make a decision on what to purchase by touching it, feeling it’s weight, seeing it in your hand and so forth.  However, you also have to stand in that store with other people shopping there as well, seeing what you’re purchasing, you have to see what they’re purchasing and so on and so forth.

The main con with buying sex toys online is not being able to feel the toy; check out the severity of any ribbing or texture, have a more realistic vision of what the size is really like.  However online stores like Vibrator.com have a much larger inventory than brick and mortar stores, which gives you the ability to choose the toy that you really want and you invariably get a much better price, despite often having to pay for shipping.

I much prefer shopping for my adult items online, for many reasons.  You get better prices and have a much wider selection so I can really look through everything and find exactly what I’m looking for.  Plus, I can read reviews of the item(s) and get other’s takes on it; is it well made, how’s the texture, is it bigger than it seems like it is, and so forth.  Also, I love the availability of kits online can let you get all the things you’d need for something, such as romancing your partner or beginning anal sex, at a reduced price.

The biggest tip that I can give when shopping online for sex toys is to pay attention to the details given, for the item.  Is it waterproof?  What’s the texture like and what’s the material?  If it’s silicone do you have a water based lubricant?  What’s the size of it?  Grab a tape measure if you have to so you can get a better idea.  2 1/2″ thick doesn’t sound like much, but it’s more than one would think it is.

The second most important tip I can give is to read sex toy reviews.  There are two main types of reviews out there; the short ones you see on the toy’s page on the sex toy site, and the other are the longer reviews put out by dedicated sex toy reviewers such as this one.

So in other words…Viva La Online Sex Toy Shopping!!

What do you think of shopping online versus brick and mortar stores?

Vibrator.com now carries Brandie’s favorite lube!!!

I’m so excited to let y’all know that Vibrator.com now carries my favorite line of personal lubricant; Climax Bursts!  YAYY!!  There are several varieties of it: Aphrodesiac , Cooling (my personal favorite), Warming , Anal and some of the best Sex Toy Cleaner that I’ve ever used.  They are great for both masturbation purposes and sex itself.

What’s really cool about these lubricants is that they are very thick, yet still water based.  Plus, they all have little beads of Vitamin E in them (thus the “bursts” in the name) that burst upon contact with our skin (you don’t feel it) and it releases that Vitamin E into your skin.  This helps keep our skin moist and the lube active.  The same beads are in the toy cleaner and that really helps your toys stay in good working condition and safe for use.

Not to mention the tops of the bottles look like nipples! LOL

Also, each variety is a different color. Cooling is blue, Anal is black, Sex Toy Cleaner is green, Aphrodesiac is orange and Warming is red.  Climax Bursts is an awesome lubricant and despite being water based (thus it’s safe to use with any kind of sex toy) it rarely needs re-applying unless you’re using it for a good half hour or more.

I *highly* recommend any and all of the Climax Bursts products.  My favorite is the cooling lube, and what we love to do with it is to put it in the fridge.  Hehehe

Anal Lube

Aphrodesiac, Cooling and Warming Lubricant

Sex Toy Cleaner

Plus Sized Sex

So often when reading about sex and sexuality and sex toys and all that, there are many issues which are addressed.  Different sexual orientations.  Issues resulting from sexual abuse.  Transgender issues.  It’s very rare though, to see someone talking about issues surrounding being plus sized.  Sure there’s plenty of discussion of self esteem and how it’s healthy to masturbate, but how often do you see suggestions on sex toys that are easier for larger women to use?  How often do you see suggestions on sex positions that are easier for plus sized people to get into?

Personally, I’ve only seen one book where plus sizes were addressed and the only suggestions on toys for plus sized women was a post written by me quite some time ago.  So, in the interest of promoting awesome masturbation for us plus sized girls, here’s a couple of my favorite toys, and some tips for us plus sized women!

Evolved Bendable You Too —  While this vibrator, unfortunately, doesn’t have Evolved’s standard rockin’ tins to keep it in, it’s bendy nature and lengthy size make it great for reaching hard to reach places!  It’s almost 9″ long, so when you have it elongated and not bent it can easily reach around extra flesh, it can easily fit inside thick labia and can help you reach if you’re unable to reach your fingers or hands down there.  Plus, with how bendable it is you can easily shape it exactly how you want and need it.  Not to mention the long cord for the power pack, so you don’t have to worry too much about where it is or how far away it is.

Share Dildo — Now, yes.  The intended purpose of this dildo is to be inserted into one female, and then that female has sex with someone else using the dildo as it’s inserted into her vagina.  However.  Look at the size and shape of this baby! That short end makes a perfect handle!  So it’s super easy for you to lay back, hold onto it and it’s size and length makes it easy to reach around extra flesh and still make it into your vagina so you can pleasure yourself.

TIPS:

Position aids, like the Liberator Wedge are really a girls best friend.  First off then can help you (anybody really) get into positions that may otherwise be difficult to achieve.  One thing though, to try, is if you’re in doggy style slap a pillow two under your belly. This will help to not only give your upper body some support so your arms dont’ have to take all the weight but also it can help give your stomach support so it’s not all pulling on your back.

If you want to have a leg or two in the air try laying on the couch and putting one up on the back of the couch.  By hooking a foot up there you can have a leg up without having to hold it up yourself or have your partner hold it for you.  That way you either don’t have to worry about that, or you and/or your partner can hold your other leg up and you can have the variety of position with a leg or two up.  This position sort of mimics doggy style and also makes it easier to achieve g-spot stimulation.

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Do you have any tips for plus sized people wanting to masturbate and have sex?  Or, are you plus sized and would like tips?  Please, leave a comment!!

You don’t need sex toys.

So frequently over the years I’ve heard things like “You have a boyfriend; you don’t need a vibrator!”  Or “If you use vibrators you’ll get addicted to them and won’t be able to orgasm with a real man!” and other similar things.  Hell, I have never believed those things but when I went to purchase a couple vibrators because I desired to masturbate (this was a few years after my first dildo experience ) I did find it difficult; despite having made the decision and having recently become single.  Hell, the “true” reason (the one I don’t often admit to) that I bought the vibrators was because I wanted to make my recently-having-left-me-now-ex-husband jealous.  It was a sort of “Ha!  You know how I feel about sex toys and look what you made me do!!!” thing.  However…. it turns out that I love masturbating!

The thing is; no.  You don’t *need* sex toys.  However, they don’t do anything bad either.  You do not get “addicted to them”, they’re not cheating (as you’re having sexual relations with yourself, not someone else) and if you shop smart they’re not terribly expensive either.  Sometimes though, sex toys can really come in handy.

For one, they can give you sensations that another body cannot; such as vibrations or different sizes.  My favorite use is multiple stimulations.  Plus they can also help for achieving different positions; sex toys aren’t exclusively dildos and vibrators! They are also position masters and adult movies and so much more.  Especially if you have medical conditions that restrict/limit movement or want to try out something new.  I especially like instructional dvd’s .

What do you especially like??

NEW Contest: Show Us How You Do It!

THE CONTEST

We have a new contest!  We will be having three winners again!  So here’s the prize breakdown:

GRAND PRIZE — $65 gift card for Vibrator.com

1st RUNNER UP — ToyGasms plus a $20 gift card for Vibrator.com

2nd RUNNER UP — Wet

QUALIFY

In order to enter this contest you need to be at least age of consent (so 18 in most places, 21 in others) and live in the United States or Canada. You can only enter once, and you must enter by May 30th, 12midnight Pacific Time.

THE WINNERS

I will be choosing 3 winners; one grand prize and 2 runner’s up. I’ll send you an email (the subject line will say “You’re a winner!”) and so long as you reply to me within 48 hours you get your prize! (after 48 hours another winner will be chosen)

HOW TO WIN

How do you win you ask? Well I shall tell you! This is a *video contest* Yup. Video contest. A few things first:

1. You *do not* need to show your face.  Do it from the neck down, have a scarf or mask over your face, whatever works.  You can keep your anonymity if you need or want to.
2. This is *not porn*.  We do not want nudity.
3. Though this *is* adult so please keep it mature with words like “penis” and “vagina.”  And don’t be afraid to talk about lube, squirting, orgasms and so forth.
4. BE CREATIVE!!!  Have music, dance around, do whatever to get your point across!  Just don’t get naked and actually use the toy.
5. Keep it between 1 1/2 – 3 minutes.

Wait!  What’s that?  I still haven’t said what’s in the video?  Well, here you go!

Show us your favorite sex toy, and how you like to use it.  This could be a dildo, a vibrator, vaginal balls, a masturbator or whatever sex toy or toys you like to use.  In whatever creative way you wish, using music, dancing, miming, or whatever, show us (with your close on and not actually using the toy) and describe to us how you like to use it.

*If you like to use more than one sex toy, make sure you choose a combination that you use together, rather than one toy after the other.  So they must be used simultaneously.*

As an example, here’s what I would say if I were making a video for this contest:

“I like to lay on my couch with a porn going in the back ground.  I would put my one leg up, like this, for ease of access to my vagina and clitoris.  Then, I would lube up the Tantus Deuce and slide it into my vagina. Once I became comfortable with it inserted and had used it for a little bit I’d take the Onye Fleur and begin stimulating my clitoris.”

One way you can think of this is like a sort of video review.  However, focus more on not only the use of the toy, but also be silly and creative!  For example:

“I love icicles #21 so much, and it’s so beautiful, that once I’m done using it I set it on a shelf so I can use it as decoration!”

Your final steps will be to upload the video to Youtube, and then come back here (here’s where you really need to pay attention) you need to log into our blog and actually put up your own post! It’s WordPress based, so after you embed your video into the blog post you’ll need to do 2 things.

1. Put a description in the post!  Write a bit in here about why you like that toy so much and add anything else you think we’ll like!  (but be reasonable LOL)
2. Click “submit for review”.  It’ll be where “submit” usually is.

Remember you need to do these last 2 things or your submission won’t be counted!!

Rocket Into Adventure Winners!!

The winners have been chosen!!
And…. in no particular order….

• Melanie!!
• LoveSickrobot!!
• Venus!!

Come on down (reply to my email.. LOL) and claim your prize!!  One of the Evolved Bottle Rockets!

Each one of them gets to choose one: Nova , Orion , Apollo or the Saturn. Yay!!!

I want to personally thank you all for your entries! I had fun with this contest and I cannot wait until our next one! It’s going to be awesome!!!

So, let’s all cheer for them and make sure to enter the next contest coming SOON!