Sex toys are better than chocolate. They come in a wide variety, they make you feel great, and they don’t make you fat. In fact, sex toys are such a good thing, your biggest problem is probably how to pick one.

When you choose a sex toy, one of the first things to consider is what part of your body, or someone else’s you want to use it on. Erogenous zones extend well beyond the sex organs and almost everyone has one or two favorite areas they find to be a source of sexual arousal.

Consider, for example, the nipples. Both men and women can become very turned on through nipple play and there are numerous nipple toys available depending on what type of play you enjoy. Some of the smaller vibrators such as the Mini-Mite Wabbit can be used on and around the nipples. This can create shock waves that make your entire body shiver. Nipple clamps such as the Crystal nipple clamps gives a different type of nipple stimulation. Since the tightness of the clamp is adjustable, you don’t need to be into pain to enjoy them. Adjusting them to provide just a bit of pressure brings pleasure rather than pain. You can also combine both types of nipple play with a pair of vibrating nipple clamps.

Another thing you want to think about in a sex toy is visual appeal. It’s entirely possible to get turned on by a toy just by looking at it. If the appearance is interesting enough, it’s hard not to imagine exactly what that toy might feel like when it’s used. If the way a sex toy looks triggers your fantasies, then it’s a good bet you’ll enjoy it in the bedroom.

Sometimes sex toys can be used to help you or you and your partner, to think outside your sexual box. Toys can bring a new dimension to your sex play. Bondage toys aren’t just for those into the BDSM scene. Using restraints such as the Bed Spread can be very exciting even for vanilla couples. Imagine what it would be like to be helpless as your lover kissed and caressed your entire body, tantalized you with a vibrator, then made sizzling love to you.

Anal toys can reveal a new range of sexual enjoyment. The anus is a center of tremendous physical pleasure. Butt plugs, anal vibrators, and anal beads can all be used to awaken sexual sensations you may not be aware of. Gradual and careful anal exploration can lead to some intensely pleasurable discoveries.

No matter which toy you choose, it’s hard to make a truly bad choice. Even a less-than-perfect toy still feels good and enhances your sex life. Feel free to let your imagination soar and choose whichever toys most suit your fantasies and tastes.

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   [...] I was nervous at the beginning. It’s the nature of the submissive to want to please the dominant, but it takes time and several play sessions to really know that dominant well enough to be sure of oneself. With S, I had no idea what to expect. We had talked many times, but had never spent any time alone together. To add to my anxiety, I had no idea what he meant by a sex toy. I knew what a sex toy was, but there were so many types I couldn’t imagine what he might choose. Thinking about this added a lovely edge of anticipation to my feelings as our session began. [...]

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