Most know of the more common erogenous zones: clit, penis, anus, etc, which are body parts rich in nerve endings. But an erogenous zone is actually defined as any part of the body with heightened sensitivity that when touched, results in sexual response. This means that any or all parts of the body can be an erogenous zone, which also means that you’ve got some work to do! Think of the fun that you’ll have trying to find one or all of these spots!

The best way to find your lovers erogenous zones is to experiment. Take turns lying back; touching and exploring each others bodies while using varied pressure and speed. While the hands and fingertips are an excellent way to explore these parts, don’t forget that your lips are also a great tool that may increase you’re pleasure while you’re off hunting. (Lips are also a common erogenous zone!) Take note of your partners reaction to your touch, whether expressed in words or a series of incoherent grunts and squeals or uncontrolled wriggling they will make it known when you stumble on something wonderful. Taking a warm bath before you head off into their great unknown will also help you in your quest to seek and excite these spots. It will relax you and increase the skins sensitivity, making their zones easier to find.

Another important part of this experience is communication. Don’t be afraid to ask your partner what feels good and keep an open mind when they tell you. Tastes vary greatly, so while one partner may be most aroused by strictly genital stimulation, another may prefer having their pinky toe sucked. As a matter of fact, while most people do think of the genitals as the erogenous zones, the list of the common zones includes far more parts, such as the earlobes (especially common in men!), small of the back, neck, scalp (think light hair pulling Mmm) No matter how amazing a lover you consider yourself to be, no two people are alike so take the time to hear what your partner enjoys without judgment. There are plenty of other spots that may be considered unusual but are a great source of pleasure for many: the back of the knees are super sensitive to touch, as are the feet. Try licking or sucking the toes. Sound silly to you? The prevalence of foot fetishes is astoundingly high and most common in men. Come on! They can’t all be wrong about how great it feels!

Bottom line; whether a cock, a left foot or even the eyes (some cultures believe that one can be brought to climax with eye contact alone!), if that’s what turns them on, then it is an erogenous zone! Don’t question or pooh-pooh it, just go with it and enjoy the rush of rocking their world, then reap the gratitude that they will undoubtedly show you afterwards!

Happy Trails!

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