Sure, fucking is great. So is oral sex. But sometimes, there’s nothing quite like taking the matter into your hands and that’s where the handjob comes in. Now the main difference for a man between solo masturbation and getting a good handjob — besides the fact that someone else is doing it all for you — is control. Men know exactly how they respond and to what. After all, they’ve been doing it for themselves for years. So. how does a woman compete or even supersede all that experience? With verve, a big smile, imagination, and taking the experience beyond what he’s used to.

Most men use their hand, sometimes with spit or lotion or one of the new lubricants. You should be sensitive to what turns your man on and then use that knowledge and experience to enhance the hand job. Play his favorite music, preferably something with a good beat (pun intended) for stroking. But, unless you’re a Speedy Sally (and you shouldn’t be with any kind of sex), don’t rush it. You’re not out to break any speed records, but to give the most pleasure and satisfaction that you can. You can alternate your stroking from a tight grip to feather-light touches, paying special attention to the head or knob and the rim just below it which is very sensitive. Massage and gently squeeze his balls, again switching back and forth from aggressive rough touches to flicks of your fingers and light, gentle caresses, so he’ll never know what’s coming next (except him, eventually).

Twisting your wrist slightly as your grip spirals up and down the shaft can be very effective. Think about that technique you use to unscrew the lid of a jar and you’ll know what I mean. When your grip reaches the top of his shaft, rub your palm over the very tip, and quickly slide your tightly-clenched fingers downward again, then fan your fingers outward to cover his ball sac. Gently squeeze and perhaps give a slight downward tug or a light scratching caress.

Positioning is important in giving a really memorable hand job. That means paying special attention to the angle of his cock. Press it downward and slide your fingers along the shaft as if milking a cow’s udder, but sometimes hold it straight up with your thumb gliding along the “seam” of the shaft, then rolling it over the head and across the opening.

It’s not all hand work, however. Look into his eyes with a direct and steady (hopefully lustful) gaze as you stroke. Watch his reactions to what you’re doing and you’ll be able to see just what effect you’re having when you do when you’re doing what you‘re doing. Make some “pleasure” sounds with your mouth and stretch it out as long as you can. Remember, the longer you make it last before he ejaculates, the more powerful his orgasm will be.

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