If you’re planning a seduction, it’s worth giving some thought to how you’re going to get your partner in the mood. Ripping their clothes off and demanding sex is unlikely to work - you need to do a little groundwork first. After all, the better the build up, the better the pay off!

The key word to remember when it comes to setting up a hot love scenario is anticipation. Decide when you’re going to make your move. Then, drop a few hints to your partner. The longer you spend planning it and the longer you let your sweetheart’s imagination run wild, the more tension and excitement you’ll end up with when it comes to the special night. Be patient!

First of all, remember to flirt. How about a little text message or a phone call to let the object of your desire know you’re in a naughty mood? Even something simple like: ‘can’t wait to be alone with you’ will get their imagination fired up. It might feel a little scary to say out loud what’s on your mind - but if it gets your pulse racing so much the better!

Next, you need to pick the right setting. A bedroom that is strewn with dirty washing and empty pizza boxes is not going to push anyone’s sexy buttons. Contrary to popular opinion, you don’t need black silk sheets and a dozen roses to pull it off - but do spend a little time preparing your love-nest. Low lights will make you both look and feel sexier. (Candles are good.) Privacy is very important here - arrange somewhere you won’t be interrupted so you can give your undivided attention. Take the phone off the hook and make sure you have a whole evening to play with.

Of course, a hot outfit is always a good idea. Remember you don’t have to wear fancy dress to turn on your partner though - just dress in something special that you don’t always wear. (Sweat pants are a definite no-no.) The more attractive you feel the better. Exotic underwear is an option, but then again - no underwear works too…

If you’re looking for more inspiration, grab some slow music or a kinky film . The idea is to create some time out from everyday life, where you can both unwind, relax, and enjoy each other. You need an element of surprise to catch your partners attention - this is where the underwear and candles come in useful. Once they’re hooked, then reel them in slooooowly…

If you do it right, they’ll be putty in your hands.

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