I’m too easy…

So I am way too easy.  I really am.  And it’s not  a choice thing.  It’s something I have very little control over.  And it’s really, really frustrating.  Sometimes I fight tears because of how easy I am.  Easy to get off that is.

I can orgasm within seconds.  Especially if it’s via clitoral stimulation.  But I cam also very easily orgasm, and quickly, via nipple stimulation, g-spot stimulation and internal vaginal stimulation.  I can also have small anal orgasms, though they’re not as intense; they’re almost a relief from the intense orgasms I can have otherwise.

I’ve always known that I was really easy to get off.  One of my friends can only orgasm after a long, long time of specific stimulation, and thus I’ve always considered myself lucky.  However, I was always forcing myself to feel that way.

Most of the men that I’d been with, prior to my current partner, thought it was so cool that they could make me scream within seconds of touching my clit.  Thing is, at that time I didn’t really know, or have the maturity to say, that it was too much and they needed to stop.  I would always “take it”, thinking I was supposed to and that I was being a good partner.

However, now that I have a partner that actually wants to take time rather than force a quick orgasm out of me so he can get his own rocks off, I really want to experience a full orgasm.  Something that has a beginning, a middle and an end.  For the most part my orgasms are almost instant, and don’t have a middle or an end.  The experience of 90% of my orgasms are climax.  And it’s tiresome.  It causes me to not be able to last as long, which makes my boyfriend have to end sooner as well (thankfully he has enough control of his orgasm that if I need him to finish he can fairly quickly; and he’s willing to, and understanding).

So many women need special positions, toys, breathing exercises, things like that to have an orgasm.  I need to do those things to not orgasm; I need them to make my orgasms last longer, or to just have pleasure without orgasming! Sometimes I specifically request things like only nipple stimulation, or just plain making out (eg – kissing and petting, nothing more) so that I can have sexual pleasure without instant orgasms.

Do you need to do anything to stop, or start, your orgasms??

Photo By: Stuart Webster

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