The best way to choose adult sex toys are to choose ones that meet your needs and your partner’s needs. What kind of sex do you like? Do you want both clitoral stimulation and that full feeling you get from having a penis inside you? Do you like anal stimulation? Are you nipples especially sensitive? What you like and what your partner likes will determine the kinds of sex toys that will work best for you.

If you want clitoral stimulation, a vibrator  would be perfect for you. There are vibrators for clitoral stimulation and insertion like the  Lelo Nea , or the Lelo Iris. Then there are hands-free vibrators they are wonderful, leaving your hands free to explore your body or your partner’s body. The Impulse Hi-Tech Butterfly is a hands-free vibrator shaped like a tiny butterfly. While the Butterfly does its thing to your clit, you can play with your nipples or go down on your partner. If you don’t mind using your hands when you hold a vibrator, try the Juli Ashton Pink Pocket Rocket with sleeve. A Pocket Rocket is a little lipstick-sized vibrator that is made for clitorial stimulation. It also doesn’t look like a giant silicone cock, so you can carry it around with you in your purse.

In addition to clitoral stimulation, many women enjoy G-spot stimulation G-spot orgasms are said to be the most intense of female orgasms. Some women ejaculate when they have G-spot orgasms. There are plenty of G-spot vibrators, such as the Tokyo Rose and the Thumbelina. Every woman should have at least one G-spot vibrator in her sex toys collection.

If you have a partner, you may want to use a dildo harness like the Aslan Jaguar Harness. A dildo harness may be used by straight, gay, or lesbian couples. Some dildo harnesses are made with a pouch to hold a man’s balls. Dildo harnesses are often made of leather, which makes them very long-lasting. A thigh harness can be fun for those who want to get their rocks off while they ride on your leg. It improves on dry humping.

If you are a gay man, you may prefer sex toys that enhance anal stimulation. Those toys include vibrators like the Booty Bandit, or dildos like the Slimline Anal Explorer, anal beads like Flexi Felix, and butt plugs like the Njoy Fun Wand. Anal sex toys differ from most sex toys in that they have a flared or extra-long base that prevents them from being sucked into the rectum. Some of them have curved tips that massage the prostate gland.

Anal beads are a string of small balls that vary in size. At the end of the string is a ring. The ring is for removal and to prevent the beads from being lost in the rectum. The beads are inserted slowly into the rectum. They are best used with a condom and lots of lube. The beads are held in the rectum by tightening the sphincter muscles. Upon orgasm, remove the beads. The sensation of removal will make the orgasm more intense.

Butt plugs are enjoyed by anyone. Some are dildos while others vibrate. Butt plug dildos and vibrators are shorter than traditional dildos and vibrators. They are also flared at the base so that they don’t get lost in the rectum. Lube may be used to ease the butt plug’s entry into the rectum. Rectal skin is very thin and can be easily torn. Lube prevents this from happening. Some butt plugs squirt water into the rectum. Others can inflate to increase the size. There are also butt plugs that stimulate the prostate gland. Remember that if you are using a butt plug in both the rectum and the vagina that it must be cleaned before switching.

2 Comments »

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   Thanks for the sex toy suggestions - it definitely takes patience and experimentation to find the right one, but articles like this are also a big help!

   Comment by Sex Toys, Adam & Eve — December 1, 2009 @ 11:44 pm

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   Good article on choosing the right sex toys.

   Comment by hector — December 17, 2009 @ 10:05 pm

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