Give Me a Buzz: Introducing Vibrators to Couple’s Sex
Frankly, like most things about couple sex, it’s all about
the intimacy.
After all, if you’re a
couple, you probably already have “our song,” “our fav
hangout,” “our private code talk,” so why not extend it to
having “our vibrators“?
And
one of the most intimacy-inducing things about vibrators is selecting and
buying one or more together or as a gift.
first “for us” vibe over 30 years ago, back in the day when the only
option was the plain white, rocket-shaped vibrator.
My then-GF told me she wanted one so she
wouldn’t have to sneak her Mom’s all the time, so we headed out to the local
adult toy store.
You guessed it, back
then it was a semi-sleazy dive featuring mostly raunchy skin-mags and
quarter-slot mini-booths behind a dirty black curtain.
We bought the only available model without
embarrassment and later that night gave it a workout.
vibes, but they shouldn’t.
They need to
realize it is not a threat, but exactly what it’s called: a sex TOY.
Toys are for playing with and when you can
bring that sense of childish pleasure of imagination and fun to the sex table,
you’re bound to enjoy what can be done.
Selecting and buying one together as a couple immediately connects to
your imagined sensual pleasures of its use and I highly recommend the
experience to new and older relationship couples.
of different shapes, sizes and intensities right here at vibrator.com, such as Rabbit vibrators or vibes specifically for g-spot stimulation or clitoral stimulation or with a realistic look and feel.
My advice is to start with one simple to
operate, made of a safe materials, and of average size.
If you’re just starting to experiment with vibrators
in couple sex, you don’t want to jump in immediately with a huge NASCAR quality
machine.
Eventually, as you become more
experienced, you can always advance and upgrade.
introduce a vibrator to your intimate activities is with a playful attitude and
as an adjunct to oral sex.
The tingling
and penetration of a vibrator almost seems to be the ideal ‘partner’ to the
kissing, licking, and sucking of giving ‘good head.’
For heterosexual women, using a vibe as a
pulsing ‘extra finger’ on his scrotal sac, the tip and sides of his penis,
nipples, or anus will make your mouth and tongue actions all that more
sensational.
For heterosexual guys,
while you make mouth and tongue love to her labia, and clitoris, the vibe
stimulates her nerve sensations and can be used as a penetration and massage
toy to great advantage.
Again, I
emphasize the ‘toy’ aspect of a vibrator.
Don’t just concentrate on the genitals, explore his/her body with it, ‘play’
the vibe everywhere and anywhere to excite his/her whole body.
If used as a penetrator, remember to use
plenty of lube and a condom covering.
Safe sex isn’t just for human genitals.
Most sex experts recommend using a condom over penetration
vibrators.
And it makes good sense for
easy cleanup afterward.
