Sex Games Beyond Strip Poker

You may have started in junior high school with Spin the Bottle or Seven Minutes in Heaven.  If you’re looking for a fun way to spend the night with your partner, or a great way to loosen up with friends before sharing or swapping, games are still fun. but we’re all grown up now, and, the games have gotten racier.

You can customize these games to your own comfort level.  For instance, it can be fun to hit second base with close friends, even if you’re not into full-fledged swinging. Or you can have a free-for-all, anything goes, with just you and your partner. The best thing about these games? Everyone wins.

One point I’d like to make: Don’t be afraid to change the rules as you go. You might want to set guidelines before you begin, such as: “no guy-on-guy action” or “no kissing on the lips,” but if anything comes up that someone is uncomfortable with, the player shouldn’t be afraid to speak up. These games are about fun, not about humiliation or pushing people past their sexual comfort levels. And if none of these appeal, why not try some old-fashioned strip poker?

Strip Darts… and Then Some
You can play this just like a classic dart game, where you are shooting to hit each number three times in any combination. In other words, you can hit three singles, a single and a double, or one triple. Write all the numbers, plus bulls-eye, on your scoreboard. The fun begins when someone closes out a number. When one player or team “closes out” a number (gets three points on that number), the opponent removes a piece of clothing. Go round this way until all clothes are removed, and then begin with sexual favors. For instance, you may go from a kiss to a massage to oral sex. We like to play that closing out the bulls-eye equals automatic oral sex, even if the other player isn’t naked yet. If being naked around sharp objects makes you uncomfortable, try this game with Velcro darts and pre-printed commands.

Dirty Jenga
This is an exciting game of skill, coordination… and sex! Jenga provides several blank tiles where you can write your own challenges. Fill these in with dirty ideas such as “trade underwear with the person to your right,” “kiss the person to your left,” “massage the person across from you.” You can also cross off the instructions on some of the tiles to write your own activities. The person who knocks over the Jenga tower must give oral sex to one of the other players (or all of them!)

Truth or Dare
This one’s a classic but now you can give it a truly adult twist. Go around the room and ask a saucy question such as, “What’s your naughtiest unfulfilled fantasy?” or “What’s the weirdest place you ever had sex?” Anyone who doesn’t want to answer must perform the dare decided by the person who asked the question. How many rounds will you go before the game turns into a free-for-all love-fest?

Vibrator.com also sells some great sex games for couples or groups. Some of my favorites are the dirty dice, with body parts printed on one die and actions on the other, or easy-to-play board games like Stairway to Pleasure.

Whether you decide to spring for a storebought game or modify a favorite game you already own, games are a great, low-cost way to spend a cold winter night. What are your favorite dirty games?

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