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Rabbit Vibrators: The Rolls Royce of the Vibrating World
November 6, 2008
Rabbit Vibrators are the “Rolls Royce” of the vibrating world according to Oprah–”O” Magazine, June 2008. Ever since that famous episode on “Sex and the City” when prudish Charlotte receives the Rabbit Habit from her friend Miranda and hides away for days with her new love addiction, Rabbit vibrators have grown in popularity and have become the best-selling type of vibrator in the world. This original Rabbit has spawned hundreds of similar rabbit vibrators, all varying in design and complexity, from those that flutter the clitoris with multiple speeds, to gyrating, pulsating, multi-functional, dual-action super-heroines designed to take you to ecstasy.
But, let’s back up a bit.
The original Rabbit vibrator was invented in Japan over 25 years ago. Back then it was taboo to depict phallic sex toys, so a Japanese sex toy designer came up with the idea of disguising their toys by creating animal caricatures to hide their intended function: masturbation. Soon, women the world over learned that these whimsical creatures were not only cute, but functional as well. So began the Rabbit vibrator craze that swept through women’s bedrooms faster than a bunny on steroids.
Today, there are literally hundreds of Rabbit vibrators (also known as dual-action vibes) to choose from with many complex functions including multiple speeds, multi-directional rotations, as well as gyrating, escalating, pulsating, waving and fluttering vibration options. This makes it very difficult to find the one that is right for you. So let’s take a moment to break down the components of these sex toys and explore their basic functions.
Rabbit Vibrators are comprised of several features:
All these features combined made for a super-heroine sex toy that works together simultaneously to pleasure women, giving them the most intense orgasms they have experienced in their life.
Types of Rabbits
Rabbit Habit and Rabbit Pearl
The Rabbit Habit and the Rabbit Pearl, made by Vibratex, are the two most famous Rabbits. Both have penetrating shafts, rotating beads at the base and vibrating clitoral bunny ears. The Rabbit Pearl is the #1 selling vibrator in America and features a rotating shaft that swerves around to hit the G-spot and the control panel power pack with sliding controls is attached via a wire. The Rabbit Habit is similar in function to the Rabbit Pearl, but has its control panel with sliding buttons attached at the base of the toy. The sliding controls on each toy allow you to control the functions of the shaft and bunny ears independently or simultaneously as well as controlling speed and intensity. These toys are made of phthalate-free elastomer.
Sue Johanson’s Rabbits
Sue Johanson is Canada’s foremost sex counselor and now has brought her show to American viewers on Talk Sex with Sue Johanson on Oxygen TV. Sue endorses few products and the Royal Surfer is one of those. The Royal Surfer features a dolphin, rather than a rabbit as the clitoral stimulator and is made of soft, non-porous silicone. The clitoral dolphin head flickers the clitoris in 3 speeds, while the shaft features wavy ridges and rotates forward and reverse. This toy is also waterproof. The Royal Wizard is a curvy vibrator, also made of silicone with a vibrating clitoral stimulator and a rotating shaft for G-spot stimulation. Also has 3 speeds and is waterproof.
Rock Your World
The Rock Your World rabbit vibrator features butterfly wings instead of the usual bunny ears which flutters the entire clitoral area and labia (no missing with this toy) and a bendable G-spot stimulation shaft that rotates and vibrates at the head. It also features tiny Elastomer ticklers from the top of the toy to its base that add extra internal sensations.
Decadent Indulgence 1 and 2
The Decadent Indulgence comes in original Decadent Indulgence and an expanded Decadent Indulgence 2. The original Decadent Indulgence has a thicker shaft that the second and large metal beads that rotate around, as well as a hummingbird clitoral stimulator that is very intense. The original also has a 5th control button that allows you to cycle through various functions including 3 clitoral patterns, shaft rotation and reverse as well as speeds. The Decadent Indulgence 2 has over 300 functions, a slightly slimmer shaft and bunny ears instead of a hummingbird. The 300 functions include 10 speeds, escalating functions, rotating beads, and adjustable internal and external speeds as well as a button to cycle through all the functions. Both toys are made from jelly.
Triple Treat Rabbit Vibrator
Now, if you want triple stimulation, then the Triple Treat Rabbit Vibrator is the rabbit for you. This toy has the usual vibrating shaft and vibrating clitoral stimulator, but has added an extra vibrating slim shaft for rear entry. So you can stimulate the vagina, clitoris and anus all at once.
The popularity of Rabbit Vibrators lies in their diversity, the multiple functions they offer, and the dual stimulation. Approximately 70% of women do not orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, which is why adding clitoral stimulation is important, especially for women who have trouble reaching orgasm which is about 20%. Dr. Laura Berman (Oprah’s sex therapist) from the Berman Center found in her study that approximately half of women aged 18-65 use or have used a vibrator which she says aids in better sexual functioning, heightened arousal, easier orgasms, and greater sexual satisfaction. So whether you are a sex toy virgin, or a connoisseur of sensual delights, a Rabbit Vibrator is sure to hit all the right spots and give you more intense orgasms.
Anal Adventures: Going Where No-one’s Gone Before
September 24, 2008

So you want to try anal sex. You’ve heard about it, read about it, and maybe even had secret fantasies about it. As an anal virgin you are curious, maybe a bit fearful, and wondering what it’s all about. We are taught as children that the anus is a dirty, secret place and many of us carry those taboos with us into adulthood. But, the anus is a very sensitive area, and, when given the proper attention, can bring one to a whole new level of ecstasy. For men, the anus is the gateway to the prostate, a very sensitive area that many men may achieve orgasm from when stimulated. Anal expert, Tristan Taormino notes that the “anus, anal canal, and rectum are wonderfully erogenous zones, rich in nerve endings and super-sensitive to stimulation and penetration. At the right angle, many women find that you can indirectly stimulate the G-spot through anal penetration.” Many sex experts recommend that you arouse yourself in the regular ways, until you are good and hot before attempting anal play and to continue stimulation throughout.
The most important thing to consider with trying anal sex with a partner for the first time is that the person being penetrated is the one in charge. Communication is essential with any type of sex play and even more so for anal play. It is important to go slow, get fully aroused, use plenty of lubricant (and then some), and to listen to your partner’s needs and body language. Because the anus has a very thin lining it is important to be careful not to tear it and to use condoms for safe sex purposes. Always stop if you experience pain or discomfort.
Solo Anal Play
The best way to try anal sex for the first time is through masturbation. That way you are really in control and can decide how big, how far and how fast on your own. Self exploration is important as it allows you to discover what feels best and how your body responds. You also don’t have the pressure of performing or trying to satisfy your partner’s needs.
Warming Up: The Rosebud of Pleasure
Developed by massage therapist and sex educator Joseph Kramer, this is a good way to begin exploring anal pleasure. First, begin with massaging your buttocks to get the blood flowing. Try squeezing your cheeks with your fingers, raking your fingernails over your ass, and even slapping it. Slowly begin to clench and unclench the asshole. Next, lube your finger very well and rub the pad of you finger around the anal rim, exploring the sensitive rosebud. Lube up the crack and slide your hand up and down. Finally, when you feel ready, you can insert a finger inside the sphincter, gently stretching it and massage the silky skin inside. It is also recommended to stimulate other areas of your body as you would naturally, to get yourself good and aroused.
Sex Toys for Anal Play
There are a large variety of sex toys available for anal play. These include butt plugs, anal beads, anal vibrators, prostate stimulators, and anal dildos. They all have different purposes and will give your body different types of pleasure. Butt plugs have a narrow head and flared base. They are generally used for anal training, starting from small and slim, to allow you to get used to having something in your anus. These are inserted and then stay in place for as long as you want to keep them there. Tantus makes a whole line of excellent butt plugs called Flirts in various sizes all made of medical grade silicone. Anal vibrators and dildos are more for stroking penetration, similar to regular penile sex play with a partner. They can often be used on a harness for lesbian penetrative sex and bend-over-boyfriends. The Rude-Boy prostate stimulator is a great toy for men who want to try a bit of buzz, while the Vivid Red Hots Briana Vibe is a good choice for women.
Prostate stimulators like the Aneros are used to put pressure against the male prostate and are used in a rocking motion rather than in and out. The male prostate is an area of immense pleasure and will often lead to intense orgasms when stimulated. Anal beads, like the Bendybeads by Fun Factory, are one of the most non-threatening ways to begin anal adventures for anal virgins and can be used simultaneously with vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. They are inserted one by one and then gently pulled out.
Any anal toy should have a wide base or a retrieval ring so the toy is easily removed. When first exploring anal play it is important to start small and work your way up to larger sizes. The most important “toy” for anal play is lubricant! This cannot be stressed enough. If you want to have a healthy, happy experience with anal play use lots of lube. Good ones to try are Moist Anal Lube and Adam and Eve Anal Lube.
Anal Insertion
Like the vagina the anus can also receive enormous pleasure from the insertion of fingers or toys. Start small, using a fingertip after you have stimulated the rosebud for a while, making sure to use lots of lubrication. If your fingertip feels good you may want to insert the entire length of the finger, or even try two. After a while, your anus will get more used to the feeling of fullness and you can try larger toys like slim butt plugs, anal beads, and anal dildos.
At first, anal play will feel strange and you will most likely want to push what is entering back out. This is after all a natural reaction. If you relax into it, however, anal insertion can be a wonderful experience that can intensify sexual play and orgasm.
Many people worry about mess during or after anal play. Be sure to empty your bowels before anal play. You can also choose to flush yourself out with an anal douche about an hour before play. I found it much easier to enjoy anal play in the bath tub with toys designed for underwater fun. It allows you to focus more on the pleasure and sensation, instead of worrying about messy accidents. Also, a warm bath will help you relax, which is essential for anal play.
Anal Sex with Partners
Now that you’ve experienced a bit of solo play, it’s time to try out your new found passion with your partner. Both men and women enjoy the experience of anal sex with a partner, no matter if you are GLBT or straight. Most important is who is in control. The partner being penetrated should always be in control of the pace and degree of penetration. Anal sex is not supposed to hurt and if it does you are perhaps not ready or doing it wrong. To avoid hurting your partner, make sure that you both communicate with each other. “Mmmm, that feels good,” “More…”, “Back up a bit,” whatever works for you. Express yourself. Make sure you are ready for the experience and not being pressured into it just for your partner. Try to relax, because a tight sphincter muscle can cause pain. And use plenty of lube. Oral anal play, called rimming, is a good way to arouse that area and make your partner relax for penetrative anal sex. Learning the ins and outs of anal play will make you an expert. For more expert information on anal play I recommend the DVD: Nina Hartley’s Advanced Guide to Anal Sex - For Men and Women; and the following books: The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women.
Bend Over Boyfriend
Some straight men have some misconceptions about anal sex (getting penetrated) that make them hesitant to try it out with their partner. The prostrate is a very erogenous zone and the ultimate pleasure zone for men. Anal sex will not make you gay. That is a myth and many straight men enjoy anal play once they get over the social taboos.
Make sure your hands are clean or use gloves. Also, trim your nails first as you don’t want to damage the delicate lining of the anus. Next, you can saddle-up Cowgirl and move up to a dildo and a harness to give your guy the ride of his life!
Anal Do’s and Don’ts
Anal Do’s
• Clean yourself and your toys.
• Use a condom or latex gloves.
• Trim nails of rough edges.
• Relax, breath & take it slow.
• Use lots of lube. I mean lots.
• Stop if there is pain.
• Only use toys with a flared base designed for anal play.
Anal Don’ts
• Insert toys in the anus then the vagina as it may cause infection.
• Insert sharp or foreign objects or anything too big.
• Do it if you really don’t want it.
• Hurry or force it.
• Pressure your partner into it if they are not ready.
Domina Doll is a sex writer who writes articles and reviews for various magazines, zines and adult toy stores. Visit her sexuality blog CherryBoxxx at http://cherryboxxx.wordpress.com/.
Make Bath Time More Fun with Water Toys
April 8, 2008
Spring is here and in many regions, temps are already rising. Even if you’re still digging out from the latest storm, don’t despair. Sunny days are right around the corner. And warm weather means water fun—pools and Jacuzzis! Why not turn your next wet adventure into something wet and wild with a waterproof vibe?From g-spot vibes to rabbits, you’ll find hundreds of choices. One of my favorites is the Blue Dolphin from Pipe Dreams. This “rabbit-style” vibrator features a dolphin-head clit tickler (the bottlenose of a dolphin seems custom-made for this activity!) and multiple speeds of pulsation and vibration.
Vibrating sponges add a new element to soapy sexual sensations. The Banana in the Pulsabath line can actually create spa-like bubbles right in your tub.
Add romantic ambience to your adventures with a bath kit featuring a floating candle and bath gel, or some soothing yet playful bubble bath.
Whether you enjoy water play in the bath, shower, pool, Jacuzzi–or are daring enough to try an ocean tryst–these tips will keep you safe.
- Make sure your toy is really waterproof! From ruining your new toy to risk of electric shock, bringing non-waterproof toys into a wet environment (we mean the pool or tub, silly!) can have bad consequences. You’re safe with non-powered dildos made from plastic, silicone, or glass and any vibe that says it’s “waterproof” on the package. Stay away from anything with an electrical plug (obviously).
- Inspect the waterproof seal around the battery compartment before you use your toy. You can also “test” the seal by holding the toy under running water.
- Clean toys well after using them in a chlorinated pool or hot tub. The chemicals may erode jelly or cyberskin-type toys after time.
- Because water tends to dry out a woman’s natural lubrication, you may want to use a silicone-based lubricant. Unlike oil-based lubricants, silicone lubes are safe for use with condoms and sex toys, and they won’t wash away like water-based lubes.
- The chlorine in hot tubs and pools may cause the latex in condoms to deteriorate. If you need to use a condom, save intercourse for outside the water—but do enjoy as much foreplay as you want using hygienic sex toys.
- Alcohol and hot tubs don’t mix. Combine cocktails and the Jacuzzi with a sex toy and an orgasm and you’re asking for a fast, messy (and not in a good way!) end to your night. Even sober, avoid staying in a hot tub for more than 15 minutes at a time because it could bring your temperature up to dangerous levels.
Don’t let these caveats scare you, though! If you’ve ever shared a shower with a lover, you know there’s nothing so erotic as sharing kisses while the water cascades down your face, caressing your breasts…
One last water tip… Don’t forget your rubber ducky. Or your wormie…. Or maybe a penguin.
Vibrator.com Airplane Ad Pulled in Texas
April 2, 2008
XBIZ NEWS REPORT
By Tod Hunter
Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND, Texas — A pink banner advertising adult products website Vibrator.com that had been flown over spring break destination South Padre Island has been grounded after complaints by residents.
“It’s just a little community, and there are a lot of older folks there,” John from Houston-based National Sky Signs told XBIZ. “We flew it a couple of times and the county asked me if I would not do it anymore. It was an informal request. I said, ‘Not a problem.’ They moved the banner to another place.”
The banner is 25 feet high and 68 feet long, with the words “Got Toys? Vibrator.com” alongside the company’s logo of a silhouetted woman.
“We felt that it’s a great audience for us, spring breakers,” Vibrator.com CEO Keith Levenson told XBIZ. “We know our demographics, and the 18-25 crowd is a big audience for us.”
Levenson told XBIZ that he might pursue the ban through the courts.
“So far as I knew, flying planes and aerial banners was a First Amendment right,” Levenson said. “From what we heard, this was a little airport that took the law into their own hands. We’re contemplating legal action.”
Recycling Sex Toys
March 19, 2008

Paper, Plastic, Rabbit Vibrators?!
Sure, everyone knows to recycle bottles and cans, newspapers, and even electronics - but I was pleasantly surprised to learn that facilities in both the US and the UK offer mail-in recycling for (over)used adult toys as well.
SexToyRecycling.com provides details on how to clean and package your toys for recycling, and even offers a $5 voucher for select recycled products at your local sex toy retailer.
In the UK, LoveHoney offers a bloody brilliant deal for Rabbit vibrator users. Send them your old Rabbit vibe and receive a brand-spanking-new Rabbit for half price! They go one step further and donate £1 to a green charity.
Both sites remind you to clean your toys with soap and water before packaging, just like you’d clean out that old peanut butter jar before laying it in the recycling bin.
Many sex toy users are becoming more environmentally responsible and ultimately buying up more “green toys”. Green sex toys include anything made of pyrex, blown glass, silicone, and even stone (!) and are not only earth-friendly but also naturally body-friendly. The peace of mind you’ll have recycling your old toys or buying green is enough to get anybody excited!
No Reason to Fear the Rabbit
March 14, 2008
With all their levels of vibration, rotation and escalation, not to mention more buttons than your boyfriend’s Xbox controller, many rabbit vibrators look intimidating to beginning toy users. The Decadent Indulgence 3, for instance, looks like something we use to control our home entertainment system!
Add to the control panel a thick shaft and…just what are those little tentacles sticking out, anyway? Those, my dear, are the key to the rabbit’s outstanding orgasm-inducing capabilities. (Well, those and the rotating pearls, but we’ll get to that later.)
The original rabbit vibe, the Vibratex Rabbit Pearl, was designed in Japan less than two decades ago, and popularized on HBO’s Sex and the City. The clitoral stimulator is actually in the shape of a rabbit with slim ears that vibrate to tickle the clit in pleasing ways.
Rabbit vibes are designed for dual stimulation—triple if you count the beads that, along with the realistic-shaped staff, stimulate the vagina.
Insert the shaft with the rabbit ears positioned on your clit, turn it on, and you’re ready to go! If your lover has ever rubbed your clit during penetration, then you have an idea what to expect from a rabbit vibe. (See? Not scary at all!)
If you flip the rabbit vibe around, the clit stimulators can provide intense anal pleasure, instead. (Remember to clean the vibrator well before switching from anal to vaginal stimulation, or before sharing your vibe with a friend!)
Many rabbits, such as the Pearl Lotus, feature independent controls for the shaft and rabbit ears. It can be fun to bring yourself to the brink of orgasm and then quickly switch stimulation. By timing this right, you can have a simultaneous vaginal (or g-spot) and clitoral orgasm, sending waves of pleasure coursing through your body for minutes at a time.
Like many styles of sex toy, rabbit vibes have evolved over the years and now come with remote control operation, in waterproof models, and with multiple speeds of vibration. Some, like the Doc Johnson’s colorful iVibe rabbit, even feature a shaft that rotates for unique sensations. While this is not exactly a “natural” motion, you’ll enjoy the feel of the soft, smooth material on all walls of your vagina.
Some feature simple twist-cap controls, while others, like the Decadent Indulgence series, offer push-button operation with independent controls for multiple levels of vibration, and even reversible rotation. You’re sure to have hours of fun experimenting until you find your favorite settings and combinations. Or you can stick to the basics with a vibrating shaft and bunny ears.
Like most vibrators, rabbits come in a variety of lengths and girths–some have curved shafts for better g-spot pleasure, while many are designed with realistic-looking heads. Whatever your choice, expect to achieve a more intense orgasm faster than you ever dreamed possible with the dual stimulation action of a rabbit.
Vibrator.com has the Celebrity Scoop!
December 10, 2007
Here at Vibrator.com, we’re celebrity news junkies just like you. We’re always scouring PerezHilton.com and TMZ.com for the dirt on our much loved/hated stars and heiresses. And being in the line of work we’re in, we pay close attention to the sex-related material we find and tuck it away for either publication or blackmail. Luckily for them, we’ve decided to publicize their sex-toy-related news for your entertainment.
Some of us are old enough to remember the early 90’s, when Madonna released her controversial (at the time) book “Sex” and exposed America to (then) taboo sexual practices and fetishes. Celebrities of the time, like Naomi Campbell, Isabella Rossellini, Big Daddy Kane, and Vanilla Ice risked their careers lending their likeness to the book, and in turn were part of easing modern America into alternative lifestyles and taboo sex.
Since then, we’ve read about multiple “leaked” sex tapes, including such forays into the bedrooms of Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson. Are they truly that careless/carefree, or might they be vying for the ultimate desensitization of what is taboo? (Yeah, right!) Whatever their plan or reason, “our” celebrities sex-lives make for more than just good entertainment. Call it the “sexualization of America”!

One young and bright entrepreneurial celeb has figured out how to capitalize on sex without hurting his career or giving dad a coronary. Rapper 50 Cent has announced the development of a waterproof “motorized version of me”, as he so eloquently puts it. All we know is that it will be molded from his very own manhood and “it will probably be blue” – his favorite color. Also in the works is a “50 Cent Condom”. Whether this condom will actually cost 50 cents remains a mystery.

So who is 50 Cent marketing his line to? Star Magazine claims that Britney Spears was spotted at Hollywood’s “Hustler” sex toy shop recently stocking up on some gear. She is also reported to have a secret double-locked “fantasy room” in her Beverly-Hills home. “It’s filled with sex toys, from ticklers, whips and chains to fur-trimmed handcuffs,’ says an insider. ‘She keeps sex toys in a glass jar.”

While we suspect that Star Magazine’s sources may not be the most reliable, we do have far more legitimate reports about Brangelina’s erotic shopping escapades while in London. Friends Victoria Beckham and Eva Longoria were also shopping for sex toys and lingerie in Hollywood last weekend, sources close to the stars say. Longoria got a stunning response from her fans in 2005 after confessing in an interview her love for vibrators. “People sent them to me by the truckload. Boxes and boxes and boxes. I gave them to all my girlfriends.”
So what’s the big celebrity scoop? Well, there really isn’t one. America seems to be happily comfortable with its sexuality. Today, we’re far more concerned with who’s coked-up driving down Santa Monica Boulevard than with some silly sexual taboo.
Sex News Round-Up
April 20, 2007
“Amora Sex Theme Park opens in London”

One of the most highly-anticipated attractions of the year has opened this week in London. The Amora Sex Theme Park promises to get heartbeats racing in the heart of London. With interactive exhibitions, practical advice, social areas, Amora is designed to be an informative sex academy. It is aiming to provide practical advice on all things sexual in a fun, lively, and open environment. Visitors can expect to learn all about it, from flirting and foreplay to climax and cunnilingus, in a fully interactive theme park.
[via 24Dash]
“Americans Falling Behind in the Bedroom”

Americans are having a lot less sex than just about everyone else in the world, and when they do, less than half are fully satisfied.
On average, Americans have sex just 85 times a year (about once every 4.3 days) — well below the global average of 103 times (about once every 3.5 days), with only the Japanese (48 times), people in Hong Kong (82 times) and Nigerians (84 times) having less sex. Moreover, less than half of Americans (48%) are fully satisfied with their sex lives.
[via Earth Times]
“More Americans keep it green when they get it on”

In addition to reducing their contributions to pollution and purchasing organic food, many environmentally-conscious individuals are applying their passion for the earth to their passion for each other. The environmental movement has moved into the bedroom, and more and more couples are looking to green up their sex lives.
[via Tufts Daily]
“My ex stole my sex toy, Slope woman tells cops”

A few hours later, a former boyfriend allegedly used his key to enter his 27-year-old former girlfriend’s Union Street apartment to steal a ring, a pair of earrings and what police euphemistically referred to as “a sex toy.”
[via The Brooklyn Paper]
