I’m a lingerie junkie. I’ve always preferred black and frilly, but my husband has a penchant for white and slinky.

It took a lot for me to don a white lace teddy the first time, but as soon as I got over my lack of confidence, the idea that only basic black is flattering and slimming, I packed an entire suitcase with white or pretty pastel-colored lingerie for our honeymoon. He loved it!

Of course, I was thrilled to see that Vibrator.com has expanded its lingerie line and posted it right on the home page. It’s taking every bit of willpower I have right now to blog instead of shop!

I find it a little sad that some women aren’t comfortable enough with their bodies to enjoy the power of lingerie. Yes, power. You’re putting on a peek-a-boo show for your partner; you’re in control of what you’re wearing — and when it comes off.

Most men will drool over whatever you don, whether it’s black leather or white lace. But when you find a style that fits your body, you’ll love the way you look, you’ll feel sexier… and that will make all the difference.

Pear-shaped… If you have a figure that may be described as “hippy,” look for a style that draws the eye upward. Fun, flirty detailing or a strapless style that accentuates your bust will stimulate his senses.

Large-busted… It probably doesn’t take much to get your guy all a-quiver over your assets. If you’ve got it, show it off! Remember, you do want some support, for both comfort and looks, so don’t shy away from foam-molded cups. Fashion experts also recommend a halter top for large-chested women. Not everyone can get away with a halter style, so if you’re lucky enough to pull this off—he’ll be pulling it off you in no time!

Slim… Women with a slim or boyish figure can basically get away with any style, so get adventurous! Colors and patterns add girlish dimensions to your figure, while flirty accents, such as fringes, on the bottom draw attention to your legs while disguising straight hips.

Full-figured… Vibrator.com has a full line of lingerie for larger women, too. Look for a supportive top and a style that makes you feel great!

Whatever your size or shape, looking good in lingerie is mainly about attitude. Whether you’re small and perky or classically-figured and well-endowed, turn up those lights and flaunt what you’ve got.

There’s a little fantasy of mine where I’m sprawled out in my tub, water from the shower cascading down onto my clit, with my vibe tucked neatly right where it belongs… and my husband walks in.

He doesn’t want to join in, just wants to watch me go through my repertoire. Other women may be mortified at the idea, but I can think of few things sexier. Besides, imagine all the tips your lover will pick up by watching you do what you’ve been doing for years?

If I’m feeling particularly imaginative, I’ll add another element to the fantasy, where he asks:  “Can I help?” There’s nothing hotter. And ladies, if you happen to walk in on your man while he’s checking out his porn collection, I encourage you to try the phrase. You may never see a bigger smile (among other things).

So what if you actually do have the opportunity to try out your sex toys with your partner? First, release your inhibitions. If you’ve been playing alone for a while, it might seem strange to have someone else involved in what used to be just you and your Pearl Lotus.

Some men may feel as if they’re in competition with the toy. After all, it might be bigger, more flexible, and it’s definitely got more functions. Make sure not to neglect his part when you bring your battery-operated friend into the bedroom.

Starting off with a toy that looks nothing like a penis may ease any trepidations he may have. You may even start with something small and basic, a standard “beginner vibe” or a small bullet vibe. With a remote control bullet, you can give him the controller, putting all the power in his hands.

Both bullets and basic vibes feel amazing rubbed on your clit during the act of sex. Doggy-style works best, but you can even use the vibe when you’re face to face. If he’s up to it, rub the vibe, on a low setting, gently against his balls. Gauge his reaction and then rev it up. Most men will love it.

If you’ve never experienced double stimulation with an anal vibe in the girl-on-top position, this is a must-try — and something you can’t really do to the same effect alone.

As you get more comfortable with gadgets, there are plenty of couple’s toys on the market, too. The Ultimate Couples Sensuous Sexual Enhancer is a cock ring and clit vibe with pleasure knobs all in one. You’ll both feel the powerful, stimulating vibes.

For powerful internal vibrations during love-making, there’s only one way to go: The unique “We Vibe” vibrator. This waterproof, rechargeable silicone vibe provides pleasure for both partners. And it looks nothing like a cock, just in case you can’t get your man to get over that particular hang-up.

So what are you waiting for? It’s time to take your toys out of the closet!

We recently came across an artist who is just perfect for Vibrator.com! Her name is Marcie, and she’s got a slammin’ dance track called “I Can’t Stop My Vibrator.”

Listen to her tracks here: http://www.myspace.com/webmarcie

And download here: https://www.beatport.com/en-US/html/content/release/detail/114873/cant_stop_my

We’ll be thinking of Marcie next time we’re out at the club!

Marcie is an Internationally Renowned Singer/Songwriter and Recording Artist with releases on various Major Electronic labels like Robbins, System Recordings, Flashover, Deepblue, Shah Music, Real Music, and more. Her tunes have had the support of likes of Tiesto, Armin van Buuren, Paul van Dyk, Oakenfold, Above & Beyond, Dave Pearce, Markus Schulz, DJ Shah, Solarstone, Gabriel & Dresden, and Aly & Fila. Marcie writes and performs in multiple genres such as Trance, House, Eurodance, Pop, and Rock, and has charted in the Top 30 worldwide. She currently resides in Boston, and her releases are available at all major record retailers.

Marcie is the producer and creator of “Marcie presents Behind The Lyric”, a show that explores the stories behind the lyrics of EDM. The show airs on Major stations like DI.FM and ETN.FM, and features interviews with well known Singer/Songwriters.

The New York premiere of “Sex and the City” took Radio City by storm last night. Not even the scattered showers deterred the die-hard fans and Carrie wanabees. Vibrator.com was there to capture the night in full.

From mid-morning, fans lined up outside of Radio City Music Hall to catch a glimpse of the “Sex” stars and claim their seat for this year’s most sought-after ticket. At one point, the line extended from 50th Street and 6th Avenue to 51st Street and 5th Avenue - an entire city block! Fans were dressed in their best evening attire and the sheer magnitude of the evening felt more like an awards show than a movie premiere. Thousands of Swarovski crystals adorned the pink carpet, and Vibrator.com stickers, t-shirts, and postcards (coincidently of the same color scheme) decorated the lapels and pockets of the masses.

Spokesmodels Desiree and Agathe worked the crowd, spreading a sex-positive message and introducing Vibrator.com to throngs of onlookers already familiar with vibrators like the Rabbit Pearl. While some mothers shielded their daughters’ eyes, many were receptive to Desiree and Agathe and happily accepted the swag. Others couldn’t get enough!

HOT 97 were there to catch Desiree ‘in the act’ with an interview on camera. We’ll be tracking down the footage to post whenever we can get our hands on it.

Cynthia Nixon, Kristin Davis, Kim Cattral, and Sarah Jessica Parker arrived on the pink carpet for photo ops and to greet adoring fans. Celebrities and proud New York residents Donald Trump, Regis Philbin, Ashley Olsen, and Eli Manning all came out for the celebration.

Hundreds of general admission ticketholders were turned away as the 6000 seat Radio City Music Hall became full to capacity.

Two and a half hours later, the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA) hosted the premier’s afterparty, where countless A-list celebs gathered to party like they seem to do in Hollywood every other week. The “Sex and the City” series, and now the movie, depict an iconic New York in which an entire generation fantasized about living. While many of us could never afford an apartment like Carrie’s on a freelance writer’s salary, we can at least afford a movie ticket (and maybe some popcorn) when the film opens on Friday.

Everyone is a “kind” of friend. Some people are the “supportive-buys-their-
friend-ice-cream-when-their-boyfriend-dumps-them-for-being-too-needy” kind of friend. Some people are the “party-all-night-long-and-wake-up-with- your-underwear-on-your-head” kind of friend. Turns out I’m the “ask-for-advice-on-awkward-questions-about-morning-after-pills-and- other-highly-personal-things” kind of friend. As such, it’s only natural that I am also the friend who takes my friends to the somewhat creepy 24-hour sex toy store to buy their first (desperately needed) vibrator. I’ve done it so many times that it’s starting to become a science. So - if you are having some difficulty deciding what to buy for yourself, and need a guiding hand, try this on for size: I can tell what kind of vibrator or sex toy you’re going to want or need by what kind of music you listen to. Here we go…

The Indecisive Listener

You listen to everything from Fall Out Boy to Kelly Clarkson, Snoop Dogg, and Metallica. You are passionate about music in general. You always grab the chance to go to a concert, even if you’re not familiar with the band, because what’s better than live music? But don’t get the wrong idea - just because you crave variety, doesn’t mean you go for just anything. You also have an eye for quality. To Summarize: You’re passionate about what you love, you crave variety, and you know quality when you see it.

Your Toy of Choice: The Better Sex Synergy Pleasure System

To prove my point, here’s a little bit about the Better Sex Synergy Pleasure System:”The Synergy is a massager that uses a unique oscillating action (up to 12,000 oscillations per minute) to enhance pleasure. The massager has five different heads made of soft rubber. The dual navigator can be used to cup sensitive areas or turned over and the nub can stimulate. The cup and ridges attachment can add subtle stimulation or be used as a larger cup to tantalize.” In other words, this one toy gives you a variety of ways to achieve a quality climax.

The R&B, Rap, and Hip Hop Listener

First of all, you keep it real. You don’t want to hear sweet, simpering melodies or bubblegum pop. You want a creative, driving beat, innovative lyrics, social commentary, and undiluted sexuality. You like it hard and dirty, and you don’t even bother with the censored-for-radio versions of songs. Your car’s stereo system can be felt before it is heard. You get involved in the inter-artist battles, taking sides and arguing about it with your friends. You cried when Tupac and Biggie were shot. To Summarize: Basically, you don’t fuck around - and if it doesn’t have rhythm, it’s not worth it.

Your Toy of Choice:Realistic Squirmy 6-inch Beige Rotating Cock

No fuss, no frills. This cock feels just like the real thing - except it’s always big enough and hard enough, and the strong vibrations give it an extra kick. It rotates at your will, pulsing with a heady beat. This is about as real as it gets.

The Wannabe Pop Star

You have strong opinions about which Simpson and Duff sister is cuter, and you like, totally think Jessica broke Nick Lachey’s heart (poor thing!). You are drawn to the simple, undemanding lyrics, and you like how fun and fashion-forward the singers are. You’re a big fan of best-friend sleepovers, where you both dance around like Britney in your pajamas, singing wholeheartedly into a couple of Conair brushes. You’re popular in school, but you’re still pretty shy around boys. (Oh, and by the way - definitelyAshlee and Haley!) To Summarize: You’re more into pretty and simple than complicated and kinky.

Your Toy of Choice:The Lelo NEA

This pretty little item is uncomplicated - just two discreet buttons that gradually increase or decrease the speed of vibration - but it packs a powerful punch. You’re not ready for a big nasty dildo vibrator with all sorts of attachments, but you are ready for an elegant, smooth little pebble of a vibrator. It fits snugly into the cup of your hand, and is easily manipulatable, for perfectly tailored stimulation. The delicate floral detail appeals to your aesthetic sense, and its small, sleek design allows it to be easily hidden from your parents and your little brother while you learn how take care of yourself. To top it all off, it’s quiet. Perfect, I know.

The Rocker/Alternative Girl

Torn-out magazine pictures of Angelina Jolie are taped to your wall, and lately you’ve been identifying yourself as “bi-curious” - which basically means you’re a little kinky, and a little provocative, but you’re sort of unsure about what qualifies as “sex” in a lesbian relationship (don’t worry, you’re not alone). Your hair has been several colors. You’re more interested in intelligent music played by talented artists than you are by the consumer-America style of pop. You take it as a personal affront when people like artists that don’t write their own music. You have at least one piercing, and - you know…FUCK authority. To Summarize: You’re an independent thinker who prefers counter-culture, and you’re drawn to real ideas, raw talent, and progressive music.

Your Toy of Choice:OhMiBod