You don’t need sex toys.

So frequently over the years I’ve heard things like “You have a boyfriend; you don’t need a vibrator!”  Or “If you use vibrators you’ll get addicted to them and won’t be able to orgasm with a real man!” and other similar things.  Hell, I have never believed those things but when I went to purchase a couple vibrators because I desired to masturbate (this was a few years after my first dildo experience ) I did find it difficult; despite having made the decision and having recently become single.  Hell, the “true” reason (the one I don’t often admit to) that I bought the vibrators was because I wanted to make my recently-having-left-me-now-ex-husband jealous.  It was a sort of “Ha!  You know how I feel about sex toys and look what you made me do!!!” thing.  However…. it turns out that I love masturbating!

The thing is; no.  You don’t *need* sex toys.  However, they don’t do anything bad either.  You do not get “addicted to them”, they’re not cheating (as you’re having sexual relations with yourself, not someone else) and if you shop smart they’re not terribly expensive either.  Sometimes though, sex toys can really come in handy.

For one, they can give you sensations that another body cannot; such as vibrations or different sizes.  My favorite use is multiple stimulations.  Plus they can also help for achieving different positions; sex toys aren’t exclusively dildos and vibrators! They are also position masters and adult movies and so much more.  Especially if you have medical conditions that restrict/limit movement or want to try out something new.  I especially like instructional dvd’s .

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